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Our world is bursting at the seams with new technologies attempting to help us communicate with one another, yet it seems that the average human being is losing their ability to be social.  Interesting, isn’t it?  I grew up in the age of AOL and AIM where you could chat with your friends over the internet using a confounding new language full of LOL’s and TTYL’s.  I don’t actually believe I have ever said LOL and meant it in the presence of an actual human being; and if I ever do, I give you full permission to punch me in the jejunum.

It makes my brother laugh when I have to ask him what language he is speaking when he texts or tweets me.  It just makes me feel old.  I think I will experiment with this new youth language.  Instead of telling my wife “I love you”, I will just say 143.  She will probably respond with “XME?” (XME= excuse me).   People think doctor’s handwriting is hard to read and understand now, just wait until they start texting patients their diagnoses and test results in abbreviations.  I’m sure it will be much better!  “XME, IAAD & u hv NADT.”  All you will think is “OMG, wat da heck iz NADT?” (IAAD =I am a doctor, u= you, hv= have, NADT =not a darn thing, wat=what, da= the, heck=heck, iz= is).

This world is an amazing place and technology has made it even better.  How much better is always up for debate, but don’t let your technology get in the way of a good old fashioned face-to-face conversation or phone call.  We’ve all substituted a quick text so we don’t actually have to speak with that person. It happens. Heck I am certain I have texted/been texted by a person in the same room as myself.  Weird, I know.  I am about as certain saying that text talk is a great way to communicate as I am in saying the couch will be a nice place to sleep after I try the “143″ instead of saying I love you to my wife.

Communicate people! Sit in front a friend/family member…..even Skype!  The face-to-face contact will mean so much more, I guarantee it.  Don’t lose the ability to be social. It is what separates us from the animals.  Actually some animals are much more social than we are, probably due to the fact that they don’t have thumbs to text with.  Go be social. TYVM & HAND. (Thank you very much and have a nice day).

Yes those are all real abbreviations, the internet told me so.

“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward.” -Amelia Earhart

What truly is the most difficult in regards to creating change? I can go around and make a lot of decisions to act but then the hard stuff begins which consists of the work and effort that go into making the aforementioned decisions meaningful and worthwhile.

Amelia, I applaud your life achievements and what you stood for but I am going to have to disagree with you here.  I can’t bring myself to disregard the tenacity and mental fortitude that are necessary in order to invoke change in your life.

Decisions determine the path you take but “the rest” takes you down the chosen path, over the rocks and through the obstacles that may get in the way.  Sometimes those rocks are boulders and other times they are merely pebbles but no matter the size you have to be able to get past them.

Your tenacity is what allows you to get things accomplished.  Better yet, your tenacity is what makes you get things accomplished.

Look around and study those who have accomplished great things.  They have an insurmountable will, a determination that is unmatched and unstoppable.  It’s within each of us.  We just have to tap into it.

Maybe Amelia was just downplaying tenacity so she wouldn’t give up the secret to her success.  Perhaps she was just trying to reach her goals before she let others in on her success.  No matter her reasoning, she knew the role her tenacity had in her success.  She was a leader and role model and earned each of her accolades.  If only we could be so “lucky”.

March Madness

Spring break makes March fun and all, but the NCAA basketball tournament, known as March Madness, makes it great.  March Madness is three weekends of documented decreased productivity at work, high fan excitement, and most importantly the Cinderella story of the underdog.

I highlight the underdogs not only because they are what make the tournament so fun to watch, but because so many people find themselves rooting for the “little guy colleges” that they probably couldn’t locate on a map.  These smaller schools are often overlooked by the higher ranked teams they face.  The media frequently states that these teams can simply enjoy being in the tournament because they “have nothing to lose”.

What is nothing to some is EVERYTHING to others.  Just because they are ranked lower doesn’t mean they don’t want it just as badly as the team they’re up against.

Underdog stories are everywhere; Rudy, Rocky, the 1980 Miracle on Ice, David vs. Goliath, and the cartoon superhero named Underdog are all examples of underdog stories (the dog I am not so sure about, but his name matched).  The movie Dodgeball: A True Underdog Story is another, although its historical factuality is debatable.

There is a saying that goes something like “hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.”  The coaches of long shot teams preach this concept daily.  It is easy for those on top to get complacent and satisfied.  That is why it is crucial to never stop working hard and competing in life to get what and where you want.

Achievement may seem improbable or difficult at times, but it is NEVER impossible.  Your success depends on your mind frame and determination.  Your hard work WILL allow you to achieve your goals and push past your competitors on the hard court of life.  Rudy finally got to play, Rocky beat Apollo Creed, the 1980 US hockey team defeated the more talented Soviets, and (insert your underdog story here).

The underdogs attract our attention and enter our hearts because we can relate to them.  Each of us has been counted out, even by ourselves at times.  Do the unthinkable!  Shock the world!  Better yet, shock yourself and push yourself past what you think you’re capable of.  If you find it to be difficult, just start the Rudy chant in your head.

The world is full of underdog stories.  If you don’t believe me, just turn on some NCAA basketball this weekend to catch a glimpse.

“Don’t resent growing old.  Many are denied the privilege.”  – Unknown

Let’s talk about the MASSIVE elephant in the room for a second: Growing Older.  About the only thing in life that comes to us without effort is aging.

Everywhere you turn, products and services are trying to help you defy the aging process.  Pop this pill to boost testosterone; rub in this cream to wipe out wrinkles; eat this “special” berry to live longer. You could detox for 3 days to increase hormone regulation and drink this tea / juice / “unique” formula for anti-aging benefits (all claiming to provide youthful results).

We are a world obsessed with looking, feeling and (sometimes) acting young.  Most of us are in denial about growing older.  We think we’ll always be able to play strenuous sports, travel anywhere we want, or continue working 12-14 hour a day.  Just assume that if something goes wrong, we’ll be able to fix it.

The reality of growing older tolls on our minds and bodies:
- Declining strength & lack of energy
- Sagging body parts & increased wrinkles
- Failing vision & hair loss
- Trembling hands & painful joints
- Forgetfulness & loss of hearing

It’s an endless list of stuff that doesn’t work very well anymore.  Is this all that we can expect from growing older?  Or can it be something more?
Growing old has its limitations but if you prepare mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually for whatever comes your way, it will make all the difference.
Prepare now for the challenges that might lay ahead.
Aging will not take you by surprise if you prepare.
Embrace aging as part of the grand plan for life.

Whether you’re 23, 51, 67 or 93 (WUF’s oldest client is!!), you still have a purpose here.  Are we producing fruit that replenishes others or do we complain and drain others that look forward to living full lives? By our attitude do we make the young among us dread growing older?

Growing older doesn’t exempt us from fulfilling our purpose in life.

Look to impact those around you regardless of age. Look for the higher purpose in every circumstance and in every face or voice you encounter daily.  For a wise man once said “the time He has given you is not without PURPOSE.”

Prepare for each day by opening your eyes to what’s going on around you.
- Your smile can be purposeful.
- Your pain can be purposeful.
- Your journey though life can be purposeful.

In a world captivated by speed and instant gratification, our infatuation with relics, antiques, and well-worn jeans seems disconnected. Growing old is authentic, genuine and valuable.  Embrace it.

The measure of life is not it’s duration, but it’s donation.  Don’t retire from life.

You’ve been given the dignity of choice.  You’re not a robot.  The CHOICE:  To be part of who we were meant to be or ALL of who we were meant to be.

Enjoy your purposeful journey as you grow older.

Remember what it was like to wake up feeling refreshed and full of energy after a solid night’s sleep as a kid?  Is it the same now?  Probably not as the average American adult only sleeps 6 hours, 30 minutes a night during a typical work week.

We seem to have our priorities mixed up here: We say those who work late into the night, sleep only 4-6 hours, and return first thing in the morning are a success.  We say those who leave at normal hours, get 7-8 hours of sleep, and return at normal hours are lazy or not dedicated.

To fully appreciate what a full night of 7-8 hours of peaceful sleep can do for you, let me break it down for you this way:

• Your Muscles:

As you enter a deep sleep, your body releases a surge of growth hormones that stimulate muscle growth and repair.  Without a regular release of growth hormone to your body, you’ll experience weight gain, loss of muscle mass and a decrease in your capacity to workout.

• Your Brain:

Sleep is essential for memory, decision-making , and your attention span.  Why?  When you sleep, you rejuvenate the connection between brain cells.  The longer you’re awake, the more inconsistent they connections become.

• Your Immune System:

The more deep sleep you get, the healthier your immune system will be.  As your sleep time decreases, so do your white blood cells – the kings to fighting off sicknesses.  Sleeping fewer than 6 hours a night will increase your chances of viral infection, stroke, and heart disease by 50%.

• Your Blood Sugar:

Snoozing less than 6 hours a night increases your chances by 4.5 times of developing diabetes.  Enough said!

• Your Mood:

The longer you sleep, the more positive, optimistic, and less irritable and depressed you are.  By feeling more confident about yourself, you’ll be more likely to set bigger goals for yourself and change your entire life – all from regular 7-8 hours of sleep!

I know what you’re saying right now: I function just fine on little sleep.  Really?  If you think you function and operate daily at 100%, just think how much more effective you could be if you slept a full 7-8 hours.  God designed us to sleep when it’s dark and he did so for the reasons stated above.  You can’t defy the laws of physiology.  Your body needs the rest, recover and renewal that sleep brings.

When we are young, you tend to get away with sleeping less.  Over the years though, it catches up with you.   You begin to use caffeine to “get going” in the morning, a mid-afternoon jolt of more caffeine or sugary snack to keep going and then cap the night off with a glass or two of your favorite wine to “help” you go to sleep.

The crazy thing about using alcohol to fall asleep fast is that you don’t realize the disruptive effects it has on sleep later in the night.  After the alcohol has metabolized and it’s sedative effects have worn off, you’ll suffer from a reduction in the total time you actually spend asleep, a decrease in your sleep efficiency and an increase in the amount of time you spend awake throughout the night.  All this prevents you from falling into the deep sleep zone that your body needs to be in to fully recover and repair after a long hard day of work, family, stress, working out, metabolizing foods, thinking, decision making, and fighting off illnesses.

Almost 100% of the population requires a full 7-8 hours of sleep each night.  Insomnia and poor sleep habits are mostly self induced and learned behaviors that you can self correct with a few simple steps.

1. 1. Bedroom environment:
   1. Dim the lights – Insomnia feeds off the glow from the TV, computer, iPad, Smartphone, Tablet, or even the digital clock next to your bed.  The light suppresses the secretion of melatonin, a sleep-promoting hormone.  An hour before bed, turn off the electronics and read a book or journal.
   2. Chill Out – Sleeping in a cool environment slows down metabolic processes, including the mindless thoughts, to-do lists, and tomorrows stresses that prevents you from drifting off.  Drop the temp to 68 degrees Fahrenheit for starters.  If insomnia is still persistent, drop the temp even lower!
2. 2. Bedtime routine:
   1. Most importantly is to keep a regular sleep schedule – even on the weekends.
   2. Try some Chamomile tea that has calming effects instead of a nightly glass of wine.
   3. Keep your cell phone out of reach at night and the ringer and alert message off.
   4. Spend 5-10 minutes reflecting on the positives of the day by writing them down in a journal.

We were naturally designed to sleep 7-8 hours a night to fully recover for the next day’s hard labor.  Don’t try to convince yourself differently.  When your systems fully rested, recovered, renewed and repaired, you can attack your day with a full tank of energy.

Sam Walton, the founder of Wal-Mart and a billionaire, did it.  Warren Buffett, the legendary investor and a billionaire as well, does this daily.  Individuals who have lost 30, 50 and 100+ pounds have done it as well.  This simple act is probably one of the first lessons your parents taught you as you entered grade school.

So what does someone worth billions, losing massive amounts of weight and lessons being taught to young children all have in common with success in life and fat loss?

It’s neither goal setting nor positive thinking.  Don’t get me wrong here.  It’s awesome to have written goals and always look at the glass as half full.  There is true discipline in looking to the future but living in reality.

The #1 key to fat loss and success in life is resisting peer pressure.

Learn from the mistakes of those that have gone before you. Learn from your own mistakes.

Take a look at Abraham Lincoln’s long list of “failures” before he was elected President. I can guarantee you these were all learning experiences in his life that he would not change.

o 1831 – Lost his job
o 1832 – Defeated in run for Illinois State Legislature
o 1833 – Failed in business
o 1834 – Elected to Illinois State Legislature
o 1835 – Sweetheart died
o 1836 – Had nervous breakdown
o 1838 – Defeated in run for Illinois House Speaker
o 1843 – Defeated in run for nomination for U.S. Congress
o 1846 – Elected to Congress
o 1848 – Lost re-nomination
o 1849 – Rejected for land officer position
o 1854 – Defeated in run for U.S. Senate
o 1856 – Defeated in run for nomination for Vice President
o 1858 – Again defeated in run for U.S. Senate
o 1860 – Elected President

Now think about your quest to achieve your Personal Best in life.

Whether it’s dropping 10 lbs of fat, working out 2 extra days a week, preparing healthy foods on the weekend, decreasing your blood pressure & cholesterol, or just being able to ‘play’ again outside without becoming winded, there will be setbacks along the way.

The question for you to ask yourself to see success through till the end: ‘What am I willing to do I to achieve my goal?’

Houston, we have a problem. 

Our problem is not something that is out of our control.  Our problem can be fixed in just a few simple steps.  Our problem, sadly, is something that is killing us faster than we could have ever imagined.

Let me put it to you this way:

The estimated population in the state of Texas is 25,883,999. There is a problem with 30.1%, or 7,765,199, of the state’s population.  These individuals are either overweight or obese.

If that number surprised you, take a look at this: 

The estimated population in the United States is 311,792,000.  There are 57%, or 177,721,440 American who are overweight or obese!

The global weight loss market is expected to be worth $586,300,000,000, that’s BILLION, by 2014.  The current cost of being overweight and obesity adds up to $300,000,000 annually here in the United States alone.  The costs are driven by:

1. Increased Medical Care
2. Loss of Worker Productivity
3. Higher Death Rates
4. Increases in Worker Disability

It’s ironic to think of it this way:  We spend billions and billions of dollars to fix a problem that boils down to self-respect, self-discipline and self-control.